Traditional Homeschooling: The School-at-Home Homeschooling Method

If you’re new to homeschooling, chances are you will automatically fall into educating using a traditional homeschooling method. This method is similar to the one schools employ. For this reason, home educators call it the ‘school-at-home’ approach. Because most of us have attended school, we are probably quite comfortable with the traditional method. However, we’re going to think about if this is really the best way to homeschool – especially for your family.

In this article, we’ll cover:
  • The homeschool definition (not just school-at-home?)
  • About traditional homeschooling (or the school-at-home approach)
  • Are there different educational methods?
  • Traditional curriculum packages
  • Choosing a method: what’s my educational style?

Let’s get into it!

NB: If you’re interested in taking a HOMESCHOOL STYLE QUIZ to quickly identify if the eclectic method is the right one for you, you can do that at this link.


The Homeschool Definition (Not Just School-at-Home)

The definition of homeschooling is educating a child at home. This can be done by a parent or a tutor. Most home educators say this isn’t the same as replicating private or public school in your home.

Indeed, this is where a lot of home educators get antsy. They say homeschooling should really be called ‘home-educating’ as most homeschools aren’t actually replicating the traditional homeschooling methods as schools do. Perhaps they are right, however, I’ll be using the term interchangeably with the assumption that you now know what these terms refer to.


About Traditional Homeschooling (or the School-at-Home Approach)

This being said, traditional home education is (compared to other home education methods) the closest parents get to replicating the school environment in their home. Parents who use this method try to create a school-at-home environment with desks and chairs in which homeschoolers sit until their homework is completed.

Most homeschoolers take an average of two to three hours to complete their homework; a traditional curriculum may take a little longer due to in-built busywork.

Many parents doing the BJU curriculum found it took them 4-5 hours on average to get all the work done.

Homeschooling statistics showing homeschool hours studied each day on average per grade.


Why Many Parents Switch from Traditional Homeschooling to Another Method

While many new home educators start with traditional methods, fewer continue on this path. This is because other homeschooling methods, such as the eclectic approach, allows parents to have greater freedom and flexibility in their daily routine and schedule.
Most other educational methods also have more creative ways to teach children, encouraging them in interest-based-learning as they learn how to learn instead of being spoonfed facts.
Another reason to move on to another method is that the school-at-home method:
  • has the highest burnout rate (because of the high amount of work required by parents and boredom as the curriculum isn’t as enjoyable as other methods) and
  • is the most expensive (thanks to the high cost of boxed homeschool curricula).

However, if it’s your first year home educating, I wouldn’t dissuade you from using a traditional program like Abeka or BJU. This is because it’s comforting to know exactly what you’re doing for the year. Take a year or two to figure things out and then you can look at other methods and curricula. Amid the plethora of changes that happen when you start homeschooling, the traditional method is one thing that is familiar.

Different Methods of Homeschooling

There are many different methods of home educating. These range from unstructured methods to more rigid approaches. Watch the video below to hear about these different educational methods.

The most unstructured approach is probably unschooling or natural learning, while the more structured approach would be the traditional homeschooling method (or school-at-home method).
The different approaches (which have their own philosophies) include the following main educational methods:

We’ll go through these briefly below and you can click the link to find out more about each method.

Ways American Christian homeschooling mothers chose to educate their children.


Relaxed Eclectic Home Education Method

Compared to traditional homeschooling, the relaxed/eclectic approach is more…you guessed it…relaxed as you can choose elements of the school-at-home method (or any method) that you like, and leave the parts that you don’t like.

For many parents, this happens when they choose and traditional curriculum but skip the busywork. This is wise, as trying to get everything done in a boxed curriculum can lead to burnout – especially if you’re teaching multiple children.


I want to use an eclectic homeschool curriculum…how do I do this?

Many parents choose to use an eclectic approach by combining traditional homeschooling with flexibility garnered from another method like natural learning or the Charlotte Mason method.

This means parents can buy an organized Abeka or BJU curriculum and incorporate different elements from other educational methods they love. Some popular combinations are:

If you want to do an eclectic curriculum, you just need to pick and choose the parts you like in each method and throw out the parts you don’t like. For many, this means you ignore the mountainous loads of busywork included with a lot of traditional homeschooling curricula!
If you’re not sure what educational method is best for your family, do a quiz to assist you in finding out this information.  Here is one learning styles quiz you might like to try.
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Charlotte Mason

Compared to the school-at-home method, Charlotte Mason homeschooling is also more relaxed. This is because Charlotte Mason, who was trained as a classical teacher, felt the Classical education of her day was too rigid and didn’t allow children enough enjoyment.

Mason’s method is more gentle and involves low-stress testing methods like narration and more engagement with nature than most other educational methods. Other tenets of a Charlotte Mason education are:

  • teaching using living books
  • gentle learning with education as a way of life rather than a curriculum
  • guided discovery
  • good habit training
  • short Lessons
  • grow the mind and grow the person
  • dictation
  • perfect copy work

Charlotte Mason home education is probably the most popular type of educational approach used by home educators in America. You can read more about this method and the tenets outlined above here. You can also use or purchase Charlotte Mason curricula here.

Classical Method

Compared to the traditional method, the Classical approach is probably the most rigid form of education. (Indeed, many other educational methods were formed as a reaction to more rigid forms of education; this is how the unschooling, Charlotte Mason, and Waldorf modes of education came into existence.)

Homeschoolers go through three main stages of education when they do Classical homeschooling. Collectively, these stages are called the trivium. A brief summary of the trivium is:

  1. The formative stage in a classical education is called the grammar stage. This is where children learn educational tools they will use in later stages.
  2. The secondary stage is called the logic stage. This is where children learn to join the dots using the tools they learned in the grammar stage.
  3. The final stage is called the rhetoric stage. In this stage, children learn to debate and eloquently assemble the ideas they learned in formative stages.

The classical method is also very popular among home educators, especially in America. Many parents use Classical Conversations to implement their children’s classical training.

You can read more about the Classical approach here or find Classical home education curricula here.



Compared to the school-at-home method, unschooling is much more relaxed. Also called natural learning or interest-based learning, unschooling is hugely popular among Australian families.

This method is not technically homeschooling, as the parents and children are supposed to have equal control over the child’s education. Many unschooling parents are offended when their children are referred to as homeschoolers.

This is because unschooling parents object to ‘giving a child an education’. Instead, they feel a child learns best when they’re interested in a subject. Of course, many parents feel this way, but unschooling families take this philosophy and let children direct their own education. These parents feel a child will learn how to do something if they want to. For instance, they’ll learn how to read if they want to read books or they’ll learn how to sew if they want to sew.

But, critics of unschooling object that this also means that if a child wants to play computer games whenever he wants to, he’ll do that too. And this is where critics have a big problem with unschooling. Essentially, they don’t believe kids are going to make good enough choices to justify this type of learning. You can see the full arguments on both sides here.

In America, unschoolers are thought to make up 10% of the homeschooling population. In Australia, this proportion is even higher.


Waldorf Education (Steiner)

Compared to traditional homeschooling,  the Waldorf approach is a little more flexible. Children are encouraged to be more hands-on and explore their environment more than you would if you were using a school-at-home approach.

The overarching aim of a Waldorf homeschool in:

  •  early childhood years is to teach children the world is good.
  • elementary years is to teach children the world is beautiful.
  • secondary years is to teach children the world is true.

Waldorf education is rooted in some unusual beliefs (anthroposophy) and is very different from Christian theology. For this reason, some Christians shy away from Waldorf education. You can read more about the Steiner methods and its philosophy here.


Montessori Method

Compared to traditional methods, the Montessori educational approach is more relaxed and encourages curiosity and imagination in children. Common tenets of Montessori education include:

  1. using natural materials like wood for play equipment and play tools.
  2. mixed-age classrooms with children usually going into older classrooms every three years.
  3. compared to the traditional homeschooling method, children get to spend a longer time on projects instead of being moved on every one to two hours (three hours is the usual block of time given).
  4. a classroom that has been well-thought-out as materials are grouped according to their subject.
  5. children get to choose what they do within a limited number of choices provided for them.
  6. students can move wherever they want in the classroom and they’re not limited to desks.
  7. children discover things for themselves instead of being taught as they might be in a traditional setting.
  8. a teacher who continues with children and gets to know them over a long period. Montessori teachers are supposed to be mentors also (similar to Waldorf teachers).

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Overarching Montessori Mantras

The Montessori method also has a number of overarching mantras and goals, some of which are:

  • Less is more – give children a limited number of toys and activities so they’re not overwhelmed with choices. This might means you take cluttered toy boxes away and give them only 6 quality activities.
  • Encouraging responsibility at a very young age – teachers establish areas for children so they can reach things and do things for themselves (as far as is possible and sensible). In one Montessori home, I found a high chair toddler can get into by themselves…how about that for independence!

And it is for this reason that Montessori education is particularly popular in preschools today. Everyone loves the idea of their children learning more and becoming more independent. I can only see positives in a lot of the Montessori method.


Traditional Homeschooling Curriculum Packages

If you want a traditional home education curriculum package, you can’t go past the Abeka and BJU homeschool curricula. I’ve synthesized plenty of homeschool reviews and listed the pros and cons of each curriculum in the links above.
If you want a  free traditional homeschooling curriculum package, you can’t go past Easy Peasy. I’ve also reviewed it at this link. Of course, many parents who are new to home education wonder if a free curriculum will be trash (or if it is incomplete) but I’ve found Easy Peasy to be quite good. While I don’t believe it can compete with purchased curricula, I think it’s great quality. Other free curriculum options are listed and enumerated upon here.

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Traditional homeschooling is a good way to begin your educational journey at home. It’s safe, familiar and easy to implement. While I would encourage you to look at other methods besides the school-at-home method, this educational approach is a great starting point if you’re new to home education.

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Rebecca Devitt
Most adults don't particularly want to relive their schooling experience on a daily basis. They would gladly move on to a new life devoid of homework and teachers. Very, very few adults will passionately blog about their schooling some 15 years after graduating. This makes Rebecca Devitt somewhat unique. As it happens, she was homeschooled. And she loved it. Still does. And she wishes every kid could get a taste of homeschooling at its very best. Her website How Do I Homeschool, is a springboard for parents to see what a life of homeschooling could be for both them & their children. When she's not blogging Rebecca is still homeschooling her-adult-self by learning Latin, growing weird vegetables and most importantly looking after her two children Luke & Penny. She has a husband Tristan and is a participant at Wollongong Baptist Church. She's also written a book about why parents should homeschool called 'Why on Earth Homeschool'.
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